Are you Avoiding Valentines Day? Again?
Make a pact with yourself that this time next year, you will be in a rewarding relationship. Find some "skin in the game" and make it important to devote time and energy into growing in this area of your life. If you don't then you might fall in love. It does happen. But then... if you don't hire a professional to catch you when you fall, you could wake up yet again wondering why much hasn't changed for the better. And that's what makes us feel like "we've tried everything" and nothing works. Really? Is that the best excuse that you can find?
All the rewarding things in life are found outside our comfort zones. Make it a point to spend as much time as you can on the outside of your own zone and play full out. You don't have to go it alone in love. Hire a love coach who can help catch you when your unconscious love patterns start to show up and sabotage you.